You once couldn’t keep your hands off each other.
What happened?
Life happened. Routines set in. Conversations became logistics. And somewhere along the way, you stopped really seeing each other.
Does this sound familiar?
- You feel like you’re sharing a house with a stranger
- The same arguments keep circling, never resolving
- You’ve grown apart and don’t know how to find your way back
- You still love each other — but the connection has gone cold
- One of you has checked out, and the other is terrified
You are not a statistic. And this is not the end — unless you decide it is.
What I do
I work with couples to get beneath the surface — past the arguments and the distance — to what’s actually happening. My aim is not to assign blame. It’s to re-ignite the fire that once brought you together.
Every couple I work with brings their own story. I bring 16 years of experience, an eclectic set of tools, and the genuine conviction that most relationships — even ones that feel broken — can be rebuilt.
“Quality of life = Quality of relationships. I’ve seen this proven hundreds of times. The couples who do the work — they get their life back.”
Cornell Pretorius
How we work together
In-Person Sessions
At the Tranquility Centre, Somerset West. A safe, private space to have the conversations that matter.
Online Sessions
Geography doesn’t have to be a barrier. Online couples sessions available via video call.
Couples Intensives
Extended sessions for couples in crisis or who want to make real progress quickly. Ask about availability.
Free resource: Start the conversation
Download 3 Questions Every Couple Should Stop Avoiding — a short guide to get beneath the surface and begin talking again.
Ready to start?
The first session is a conversation. No pressure, no diagnosis. Just two people and a psychologist, finding out where to begin.